G: what will u do for having a ocial life?
A: i would call more often or speak more often with my local contacts
A: and get involved in their social activities
A: this type of social life comes whn you are stable
G: but as soon as u get fixed
G: u do it
A: when you have your life in order
A: but not when you are agitated
A: and try to put your things in order
G: me I would go to the gym
G: and have sport buddies
G: go to language lessons
G: and meet ppl there
G: and jon more social activities
G: by the work
G: but same as u
G: when I am stable
A: when you work you really don't have the time to spend with many ppl
A: but with few
A: and very important ones
G: it is a matter of luck also
G: to beat the right place in the right environment at the right moment
A: it is a matter of situation
A: if you have the right environment, you can be very social
A: if not, you have to work hard to create it
A: if you feel it is a priority for you
A: at a certain point
G: but also for instance
G: here
G: ppl leave at 4;...5
G: no pb
G: so it is totaly dofferent from what I xp in
G: and I could not adapt rapidly
G: maybe this would have changed
G: the situation
A: it is also how you are
A: there are ppl that cannot be alone
A: and cannot live without having 10 other ppl around
A: and there are also ppl that are just fine by themselves
G: yes
G: I am the 2 I think...
A: in a certain proportion
A: it is not like you prefer to be alone
A: it is that if you are, you don't die
G: no
G: indeed
A: and you, are not alone
G: this is me
A: imagine not having me to talk with
G: indeed
A: think of how much time we spend interacting
A: with each other
G: and u imagine me not for u also...
A: in this case for sure you would have taken drastic measures
A: to animate your social life
G: yeap
A: but having me, fulfils this need
G: yes
G: and u 2
G: I fulfill also
A: you remember that we had this discussion in the past ?
G: yes
A: when you asked me why i don't join i don't know what in
A: the trainees or smth
G: yes
A: and now you can understand why
A: then, you weren't able to see things through my perspective
A: but now you understand
A: it is not a matter of being lonely
A: or not social
A: is that i already have what i need
A: at this chapter
A: in a satisfactory proportion
A: i can focus on smth else
G: yeap
A: you see my point ?
G: yes
A: whould be dificult without each other
A: for sure
A: but we support each other and we are fine
G: yes
G: I like that
G: but me I like going out
G: chilling out at a bar sometimes
G: taking a coffee for hors wth friends
G: stating thre 3 hours
G: with only one coffee
A:
G: u know this kind of stuff
A: yes
G: or going to play soccer
G: or playing video games or games
A: yes
A: well, you can be limited somehow abroad
A: i don't know
A: it is not like at home, abroad
A: you are among strangers
A: and ppl that are just fine without you
A: and ppl that don't need you to join their group
A: you can force yourself in on long term
A: but it can take time
A: to create a network
A: a good one
G: yes indeed
G: but I did not want to join the french network directly
G: like that
G: because then u hang out only wiht them
G: but actually the french can have friends in other networks
G: and it is easier to access them via the french
G: that know already
G: than doing it by yourself
G: I think
G: so I think next time
G: I just go directly to the french
G: and u to the ro
A: me, i went to the ro directly
A: but i wasn't satisfied
A: cause they don't give me the international experience
A: i prefer to join a network of locals
A: in order to know them
A: this is why it can take time
G: yes
G: but I think I will aply my theory
A: cause you have to go in a cercle already formed
G: because t takes time to access them in both cases
G: circle
G: yes
G: so joining via smeone is cool also
A: you will see
A: we will get experience
A: and we will do things better in the future
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